If our debate about the way we relate to each other as the body/family of Christ does not first stem from our understanding of our need, and the nature of our relationship with our God through His Son, by His Spirit, then the debate will go on. And our relationships will be dysfunctional.
If those who are the children of God through a right relationship with His Son, Jesus, confirmed by the presence of His Spirit within their own spirit, are called the bride of Christ then would not all have to relate to Christ as husband…including men, singles, divorcees, widows/widowers, children, teens, and wives? If each understood, believed, valued and lived in light of Christ as husband, comforter, provider, leader, lover, ‘head’, forgiver, restorer, friend, saviour, would we not better understand ourselves and our own roles in that light?
Wow, 2 minutes ‘power posing’ can affect your confidence and outcomes!
Your body language shapes who you are Amy Cuddy, TED 2012
…and for my christian friends: IF and WHEN God has called you to something, I was reminded of Jeremiah 1:17
Many thanks to Leslie and Alison…you have once again caused me to think about how I do things, and how I “do me.”
I’m certain the emphasis is not quite so much on ‘what’ we’re doing, but the attitude and/or motivation with which we are doing ‘it’!
Personal and seasonal
Empathic and most reverent
Persistent and so diligent
Consistency and confident
Loving, willing, virtuous
Fearless, strong, industrious
Wise, discerning, disciplined
Entreat, create, envisag – ed
A woman after God’s own heart
Should enjoy the fruits of work
All she has done we will applaud
Her inner self, our best reward
Oh mother, don’t you worry
Don’t you fret and don’t you frown
When your little ones are tiny
And you’re still in your dressing gown
Take a nap when they are napping
Though you’re tempted still to work
It will make your times together
A little brighter, less berserk!
Keep a space where there’s no washing
No ironing, toys or mess
A place free to sit and wonder
Read, listen, watch; or just to rest
Take a walk outside with bubba
Stroll along in air and sun
Breathe in deeply; hear the birdsong
When you’re ready, maybe run
If someone offers to assist you
Say, “Thank you, yes please, do!”
If none will offer, find one wiling
To lend a hand to you
It’s a lie that we believe,
The lie we’re meant to go alone
Community or family help us
Our mother-skills to hone
One day the weariness that drains you
Will be eased, with much more sleep
Your little ones will slowly start
Independently to creep
They’ll eat with you and walk with you
And eventually they’ll run
All at once you’ll look around you
To see how far you both have come
This is not original, it was on a newsletter but I didn’t know who the author was. But…I like it! (Perhaps DJ Harley)
Many will be shocked to find,
When the day of judgement nears,
That there’s a special place in heaven
Set aside for volunteers.
Furnished with big recliners,
Satin couches and foot stools;
Where there’s no committee chairmen,
No group leaders or car pools,
No eager team that needs a coach,
No bazaar and no bake sale.
There will be nothing to staple,
Not one thing to fold or mail.
Telephone lists will be outlawed,
But a finger snap will bring
Cool drinks and gourmet dinners
And treats fit for a king.
You ask, “Who’ll serve these privileged few
And work for all they’re worth?”
“Why, all those who reap the benefits
And not once volunteer on earth!”
Betty Edwards – Drawing on the Artist Within
We have become accustomed to thinking of artistic ability as basically unteachable…Moreover, many…have shared the unspoken belief that artistic abilities are largely non-essential…
I propose that learning to see and draw is a very efficient way to train the visual system, just as learning to read and write can efficiently train the verbal system. That is not to say that the visual system is better, morally or otherwise, than the verbal system. But the two systems are different. And when trained as equal partners, one mode of thinking enhances the other, and together the two modes can release human creativity.
My claim is quite modest…Through learning to draw perceived objects or persons, you can learn new ways of seeing that guide strategies in creative thinking and problem solving just as, through learning to read, you acquire verbal knowledge and learn the strategies of logical, analytical thought…And you will have taken a giant step toward attaining a modern brain.
Victor Lowenfeld: via Betty Edwards – Drawing on the Artist Within
We have to regard it our sacred responsibility to unfold and develop each individual’s creative ability as dim as the spark may be and kindle it to whatever flame it may conceivably develop. (Basics of Creative Thinking – 1961)
Robyn Krowicky – singing/piano teacher
Music engages both sides of the brain.
My 17 year old daughter
Sight reading and singing at the same time engages both sides of the brain.
John Anderson – ‘Open House’ interview – paraphrase
Beliefs, values, behaviour, ethics, policy.
Unsure who it was I read or heard this from but…perhaps Dr Hugh Mackay
We tend to practice what is natural or what we know already rather than practicing what is unfamiliar to further develop it.
Mick and Ruby Duncan – Alongsiders
Work from your weaknesses.
So, be holistic! Practice holistically, attend to your whole being.
We were made in the image of The Creator.
If (as I have repeatedly heard in recent years) men are naturally drawn to the ‘visual’ and women to the ‘verbal’, which should we practice more?
Have we been re-creating lopsided monsters instead of holistic persons?
That is all.